love

When you young, you don’t know anything, all you know is romance, that’s the easy stuff.

Everyone wants to believe in something. The English word, “Believe", means be-lieve, Okay. See, it means to be held dear, to be loved. That's all, to be loved. You hold something dear if you love it, you hold it dear to your heart. And when people get offended by races, nations, religions, the reason people get upset is because they felt what you're really saying to them is that they're not worth of love, they're unlovable.

Intimacy is very a difficult thing, that's what we've been taught. We’ve been told that men have problems with intimacy. I don't know about that but what I do know is that I have to have a tremendous amount of sex with somebody before I'd buy her a drink.

Everything is politics really. Even talking to another person can be termed as politics. You can even find politics in romantic relationships. Yeah! Love itself is kind of like terrorism, very aggressive thing. You know, when you fall in love with somebody for the first time, or in the earlier stage of relationship with somebody, you sort of terrorise one another. Expressions like, "I love you so much! I want to rip your spine out, so that I can move in."

It is almost tradition that things have to be just right for a woman in every respect, for certain action to take place. If you cared about somebody, properly care about somebody, every single element has to be just right. Whereas for man that doesn't seem to be the case. Desire, lust, just appears, all circumstances are fine for any sensitive occasion, isn't it? But for woman, things have to be absolutely correct.

It's great when you meet the person you're supposed to share this mystery of life with. You know when that happens. Quite often at a particular time of life, most likely when you're young and poor, while you're still living in a room. In fact you both live in rooms, where you have all your shit. Cause you're poor. And it's lit by candle light.

Life is very difficult if you're a person, a human being. It's the worst position to be in. Now if you're alone, if you came here alone, people will judge you as I said. People in couples will judge you, as if you are sad and scary. Because you don't have the big form of entertainment they's enjoy everyday. Look, a couple is a strange organism. It's a creature that's half of its intelligent is the most intelligent member. And you both know who that is. You spend the whole time constantly trying to prove to the other person in your relationship that they're clinically, medically, and irrefutably insane. That is the essence of entertainment for being in couple.

Love is incredibly mysterious, as you know. And it is still the thing that troubles most people for a lot of their lives, until they work it out. You may do or have done this, the little birds conversations in restaurants, you know young lovers speak to one another. It never really changes. The essential dialogue is people competing one another as they're telling each other how they love one another.

Love is truely difficult to express, in all its forms, because it changes as the time goes by. Like when you're young, just meet someone and get romantically involved with. It's often gone absolutely crazy, completely overwhelming, you cannot even think about anything else, you want climb inside the other person and live under their pancreas.

Love itself is kind of a religion, more of a cult. Somebody would say to you "Do you love me? Do you love me?" And you go "Yes, I do love you." And they go "How much do you love me? Will you love me next week? How about next month? Especially next year I may be a real prick around there. Do you think about me all the time? Do you? Do you sometime realise that when you're not think about me and you feel terrible. Will you make me laugh? Will you feed me? Will you tickle me? Will you do all those things?" It is a cult that you've been invited into.

People of different generations talk about relationships in completely opposite way. And what the fuck is relationship by the way. Nowadays people go, "Oh. You know, there's a problem in my relationship. We have a thing. This thing seems just keep going on in our relationship." Sounds like a mystical 3rd party creature that people brings around with them. They blame at the relationship but never themselves.

The expressions of love all begin with very very short sentences, people would say "You're amazing. You're incredible. I love you. This is wonderful. You're fantastic. Yes!"

The things about desire for love and be loved sometimes been regarded as trivial stuff in today's busy life. But that is the singular thing you're constantly been drawn towards to and constantly trying to get away from, the trap to escape from. That's possibly the fundamental reason why pornography is such a huge industry. Because for a lot of men, sex is just too important to involve another person.

This friend of mine whose disappointed by woman's reaction when he gave her girlfriend a present. I asked, "So, what was her reaction then?" He said "Well, you know. She said, 'Oh, I love this. This is really great. Thank you very much." But he wanted more. I mean in a matured relationship, that's already a fantastic reaction.

Without doubt, love is very deceptive thing, because there are all sorts of different types of love. You might falling in love with somebody just because they’re beautiful. But even that could have so many different varieties. Cause somebody could be just kind of make you want to applaud as they walking pass by, you think "Oh, Well done, you're a very good looking human being, good job, keep it up, here, have a budge, you deserve it." And then there’s another type of love emotions by lust and desire, you know, when you see somebody and you just want take off your cloths, but you're immobilised with painful desire, so you have to ring a pal to come around to help with your trousers. And then there's a very weird kind of love, when you see somebody who's exclusively beautiful that all you want to do all day is sitting there generating saliva while staring at her... But that doesn't happen to me that seldom.